3 Biggest Break Up Mistakes To Avoid (1 Will Surprise You)
Are you trying to get your ex back into your life? Perhaps you’ve done everything you can but still you’re not getting the response you want. Are you wondering how to get your ex back if your ex won’t even respond to any of your phone calls or messages? If you want to know what you’re doing wrong and what are the biggest break up mistakes, please keep on reading.
#1 Break Up Mistake to Avoid: Contacting Your Ex
Okay, you’re probably wondering how contacting your ex is a big break mistake but just know it is one of the biggest mistakes people make! If your ex isn’t responding to any of your messages, chances are you’re not getting the hint. What your ex wants more than anything is for you to give them the space and time they need to figure out what they want. They can’t get the clarity they need if you keep calling them. In most cases, they resort to being mean and cruel just to get the point across.
#2 Break Up Mistake to Avoid: Trying to Convince to Take You Back
There is one thing you must understand when it comes to attracting back your ex. You have no control over their thoughts, feelings, desires and so forth. The more you try to convince them that “you guys had it good” the more you will push your ex away. No one likes to be told how to live their life and neither does your ex. Also, when you’re trying to convince your ex to take you back, you’re essentially giving off vibes of desperation. When you’re in this kind of mindset, it’s not very attractive because you can only attract love and not demand for it.
#3 Break Up Mistake to Avoid: The “Need My Ex Back” Mindset
There is a significant difference between needing your ex and wanting them back in your life. The more you need your ex back in your life, you are relying on your ex to be happy. Putting all that pressure on your ex to keep you happy is not fair and unrealistic. The only person you should be relying on to be happy is yourself.
When you need your ex because you can’t imagine life without them, chances are high that you are in the wrong mindset to attract your ex back. When you are in the wrong mindset, your ex can feel this and it is not attractive. Wouldn’t you rather have your ex come back because they love you and want to be with you instead of feeling obligated to be with you?
These are the biggest break up mistakes people make when it comes to getting their ex back. Are you making any of these mistakes? If you are, there’s still hope for you just yet. What you need to do is to apply the No Contact rule (right now) and work on your mindset through self improvement. The only way you can get your ex back is to attract them back.